Posted by Cathy Anne on March 13, 2002 at 19:35:57:
In Reply to: Re: I don't know if my husband is cheating posted by loose one on December 07, 2001 at 08:33:28:
: : This is the fourth damn night in a row that my husband has come crawling in drunk at 4 am in the morning. He says he is hanging out with some college friends of his but I know those men are married and I know they can't possibly getting away with this shit. I'm too embarrassed to ask their wives if my husband is really out with them and I am damn sure that if I ask them they will lie for him.This is what you do ask for husband is he cheating and if you are not sure of his awswer than get out side help to help you in that area have them follow him ever where he go's for about a year. than get the lawer than for there i know what you know what to do but you can't tell him of your ackion no matter what and atfer ALL OF THIS WRITE A LETTER TO HIM TELL HIM WAY YOU DO WHAT YOU DO AND THE THING THAT YOU DID WELL THIS WAS GOING ON I MEAN ALL OF THEM
: : I don't know what to do. We have been married for fourteen years but I need to know what to do. I have thought about getting a marriage counselor but I think that would make him mad at me if I even bring it up.
: : I just need someone to talk to so I won't drive myself crazy everynight that he DOESN'T come home.
: : Should I move out? What should I do? I know I need help but I just don't know where to begin. I'm afraid he's gonna crash the car too, on his way home.
: : Please Help.
Looks like the boredom has set in and if he wants to go out every night and get drunk you can stand on your head until you are blue in the face, it wont change him unless he wants to change and if he values your marriage. Suggest the marriage counsellor, dont be afraid, what have you got left to lose?