Posted by Robyn on October 03, 2001 at 15:11:08:
In Reply to: Re: RESONS WHY PEOPLE LIE posted by Ad on September 29, 2001 at 17:46:30:
:because they found honesty received judgments and criticism
: The thrill of *almost* being caught
: The self-effacable confidence of knowing something another does not.
: To escape a truth or realism you find unpalatable or in conflict with your own values.
: To make ourselves feel better
: To make others feel better
: To give confidence (kinda like the above, but subtly different)
: To gain advantage
: To hide themselves from memories of past hurt
: Because it worked before
: It worked for someone else (brother, sister, friend etc)
: Because they don't know better
: Feelings of insecurity
: Peer group pressure
: To get out of doing something
: To divert attention to someone else
: To get thru a day in life
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: : THESE ARE THE REASONS WHY PEOPLE LIE - PLEASE ADD TO THIS LIST IF YOU CAN!!!!
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: : To get out of trouble
: : To cover up the truth
: : So they won't hurt people's feelings
: : Just to see if they can get away with it
: : Save your butt
: : No apparent reason
: : Because others lied to them
: : Just because you can
: : It's a habit
: : It's a disorder
: : They feel they can handle the situation themselves of they postpone it for a little while
: : To buy themselves time
: : To get what they want
: : To place the blame on someone or something else for their screw-ups
: : To size a person up
: : To see what kind of reaction they recieve from certain comments or answers
: : To decieve someone into doing something they don't want to or shouldn't