Right, they just want to get us for our "experience."  I have had that lie too often.  Shame on me.  All from black men, sorry to say.  They all said they wanted to date an older woman and have a "real relationship."

I even tried to starve them off sexually for a few dates, but they were fast, and I am guilty of wanting it, too.  But with each, they disappeared; they became suddenly busy right after we had done it a few times.  I feel used and abused. 

Moral of the story:  don't fall for that lie about wanting a "real relationship."  All they really want is the sex.